How To Keep A Relationship Strong And Happy
HOW TO MAINTAIN A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP? 5 FOOLPROOF
TIPS!
When we start a relationship, we went through a period known as “a thousand wonders, where everything is flowers”. It seems that the person came out of a fairy tale and even his flaws are revealed or masked by us.
As you might expect, over time, problems appear and
we see that no one is that perfect. Many people are unhappy within the
relationship. For
this happiness to last, it is necessary to deal with frustration and more than
that, take actions within the day to day to maintain such happiness.
In our post today you will have some tips on how to
make happiness last within a relationship.
1 – Stop trying to
change others
One habit most of us have is that we are always trying to change the other person. This goes against happiness within any and every relationship. Nobody changes anyone; we can improve some aspects for the other, if that's our will. But we cannot count on it.
The idea is to always accept your partner the way
he is, learning to live with his flaws. If it's something that's unbearable for you which
doesn't have room for reconciliation or negotiation, the smartest measure is to
end it. A relationship is only happy when both accept and
love each other as they are
2 – Give space to
the other and have your own
Encourage the other to have moments alone or with
friends, and also, you, to do the same. A couple that can be independent of
each other is much happier and can even surer that they are together by choice.
Spending time apart makes you miss each other and make both of you have new
stories to tell.
3 – Don’t let the relationship fall into routine
Routine is part of every couple, those weekend
habits, the same sex position and stuff like that. But always thinking about
innovating is essential.
You don't have to surprise each other every day or
wonder how to always innovate. We're talking about those unexpected surprises,
you know? Sometimes
a simple gesture, like a simple note, can make a person's feel much better and
bring even more happiness within a relationship. They say happiness is in the
little things, try to explore that, with more elaborate surprises every now and
then.
4 – Treat your
partner with respect
Respect is part of any relationship and when it goes away, so does happiness. For any couple to be happy, respect needs to be part of the relationship. Respect is in the little things, which we sometimes forget in everyday life.
Respect is even found in
accepting your partner's choices within the relationship, something that is not
always easy.
5 – Make plans
Nobody deserves to be in a
relationship without knowing where it's going to end up; this intrigues the
partner and doesn't keep happiness.
Even if it's a simple plan, to go to the beach on the next holiday, but the
couple must always be feeding it. Making plans with each other, keeps happiness
within the relationship and causes that good expectation,
Finally, always be praising the loved one. Whether for aspects in
appearance or personality, we all like and need this social approval,
especially coming from those we love.
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